Kimberly Menzies Mourns Late Mom, Gets Blindsided by Usman

On the Thanksgiving weekend episode of 90 Day Fiance: Fortunately Ever After?, Kimberly shared devastating information.

Her beloved mom, Sally, had handed away. Kimberly had revealed this information to followers in January of this 12 months.

She was dealing with the loss. Her son, Jamal, shared that he felt impressed with Usman’s present of emotional help.

Then, Usman blindsided Kimberly. Does she really feel as much as elevating a brand new youngster?

Kimberly Menzies returned residence from Nigeria an engaged lady.

Twice-engaged, actually — she and Usman “Sojaboy” Umar each proposed to one another.

Only a few weeks after her arrival in San Diego, nevertheless, Sally turned very ailing. She handed away.

90 Day Fiance: Fortunately Ever After? viewers are conversant in Sally.

She is Kimberly’s mom and Jamal’s grandmother. She has appeared on two seasons inside this franchise.

Clearly, her demise hit the household exhausting.

Jamal admitted to the digicam that his grandmother’s passing additionally helped him to see Usman in a brand new gentle.

He proved to be an excellent consolation to Kimberly, reaching out to her and cheering her up whereas displaying emotional help.

To Jamal, that was essential. He can see a bit extra of what his mom sees within the alleged “celebrity” rapper.

Kimberly additionally selected to channel this household tragedy right into a little bit of a wakeup name.

She made a degree to train extra. She shared with the digicam that she is quitting smoking.

Kimberly hopes to be round for a protracted, very long time. And, after all, she wished to “sustain” along with her a lot youthful fiance.

Kimberly spoke to Usman through video chat.

They exchanged loads of affection, as at all times. However there was extra.

Usman had a really, very awkward query to spring on Kimberly. And he wasn’t certain of how she would possibly react.

“I really feel like perhaps I’m going to undertake,” Usman lastly informed her. Wait, what?

Sure. Usman’s brother, Mohammed, has a son named Mahadi. He’s Usman’s younger nephew.

And whereas clearly we’re all lacking some context, Usman is contemplating adopting him.

No, this was not a joke.

Amongst different issues, it could permit him to fulfill his mom’s mandate that he have a baby.

And it could permit Usman to take action with out having a second spouse — one thing that he discovered may make it not possible for him to obtain a US visa.

However between Usman’s skilled life-style and cultural expectations, Usman wouldn’t be the one elevating him.

Kimberly naturally requested who could be accountable for precise childcare.

Usman requested Kimberly if she wish to increase this boy.

Clearly, Kimberly must give all of this some cautious thought.

On the one hand, this implies a viable method of marrying Usman with out a second spouse or visa troubles. However on the similar time, it could imply changing into a dad or mum. Once more.

Kimberly already did each stage of parenting. Her son is an grownup. She wasn’t certain if she was able to strive it once more from the start.

Kimberly sat down with Jamal at an East African type restaurant in San Diego and advised that he meet Usman.

She wished him to hitch her on her subsequent journey to Nigeria.

Jamal agreed. He’ll quickly meet Usman … until one thing goes mistaken earlier than then.